Are most couples prepared for the commitments of marriage during their engagement period?

Most couples are not fully prepared for the commitments of marriage during their engagement period. While engagement often represents a significant commitment and intention to marry, it does not necessarily ensure that couples have addressed or fully understood the complexities of marital responsibilities. Many couples may spend this time focusing on the wedding itself rather than the implications of merging lives, finances, and responsibilities.

Research often indicates that couples may lack discussions on vital topics such as finances, parenting, conflict resolution, and personal expectations of marriage. As a result, they might enter marriage without the necessary skills or knowledge to navigate challenges effectively. Preparedness involves not just commitment but also open communication and shared understanding of what marriage entails, which may not be fully realized during the engagement phase for many couples.